The Dad and I were both very very tired last night. I was so tired I could barely stand up, and felt quite ill. We had good, and even quite bloggable reasons – it has been a busy few days, and I had had very little sleep the night before.
Babess had a birthday! She’s four!
We saw Flight of the Conchords on stage! (They were brilliant).
The dishwasher broke, late on a Thursday so we couldn’t call the repair company until Friday morning and they can’t come until Monday – and we’re hosting Babess’ birthday party on Sunday. Boo.
Pearl, Fainjin and I went to the school Matariki celebration, at dawn on the beach looking up at the stars and freezing our toes, then warming up with porridge, milo and cheerful conversation MUCH too early in the school hall.
Pearl went off to her first weekend-long “camp” with Girls’ Brigade, fascinating the younger two who have visions of her in a tent in the wilderness (in fact she is in a lovely retreat centre out in the country). They keep asking whether she has a bed, is there any food, will she have a shower, is there a roof?
So last night, over dinner, I suggested to Fainjin – who is our alarm clock most mornings – that perhaps we could have a sleep in. He looked dubious. “You can get up at 6 if you like,” I said, “even get dressed. You can play with your Lego. But please let Mummy and Daddy sleep until the first number is 8.”
He agreed, and soon enough we went thankfully to our beds.
This morning, at 6:42 (later than normal, at least), he came running into our room. “Mum! It’s after 6! Time to get up!”
“Fainjin, remember, we’re sleeping in? You can get up but Mummy and Daddy are still asleep. Come back when it’s 8 o’clock.”
“Oh. Yeah. Sorry!” and he disappeared. But not for long. He came back in several times over the next half-hour, asking questions and checking in. He helped Babess get up, set up breakfast, played for a bit, and then I heard the sweetest sound. He was reading to Babess! He had retrieved his school reader from his school bag, and was reading her the story. She made sage comments on the pictures while he sounded out the words.
We went to the library today and he was chuffed to find some books that he could read all by himself with minimal help. Perhaps tomorrow morning he’ll read to Babess again.
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